Sex is getting out of the bedroom to invade every part of our society. We see it on magazines, TV, cinema and in advertising... girls dressing&dancing almost like prostitutes, mums dressing their babies like they were adults...
Sex is not a sign of love, at least nowadays and that makes me sad. I guess it's easier to open legs than to develop an interesting personality...
I know. My mum got a new boyfriend and all they talk about is sex. In my opinion, I think it is gross, and if you want children, you have to do it. I don't think it is meant for pleasure.
I don't agree with you in that part. Sex is not gross and yes, it's meant for pleasure. When, and only when, love is involved. When you make love you're discovering every little part of your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife. You're giving them, and receiving at the same time, everything you and he/she has to gave you: body&soul. And... it can be fun!
If you imagine all the sweat and fluids, yes it seems it's gross. When I was a kid even kissing seemed gross to me. But it's your imagination, in real life, if you love the other person and are attracted to her everything will feel natural. The other person will not be an extension to yourself but a BIG part of you.
As I said in other comment, sex isn't and shouldn't be the only way to express love to someone else (that's really disgusting) and we shouldn't feel the urge to do it all the time because then it looses its significance and we turn in just animals...
But sex is love. I hate it when people use it just for pleasure. Or as a way of life... that's gross...
Sex is not a sign of love, at least nowadays and that makes me sad. I guess it's easier to open legs than to develop an interesting personality...
If you imagine all the sweat and fluids, yes it seems it's gross. When I was a kid even kissing seemed gross to me. But it's your imagination, in real life, if you love the other person and are attracted to her everything will feel natural. The other person will not be an extension to yourself but a BIG part of you.
As I said in other comment, sex isn't and shouldn't be the only way to express love to someone else (that's really disgusting) and we shouldn't feel the urge to do it all the time because then it looses its significance and we turn in just animals...
But sex is love. I hate it when people use it just for pleasure. Or as a way of life... that's gross...
Tho, I gotta say that makes intimacy so much more romantic. :'D